The Ultimate Sex Bucket List


    1. Wake your partner up with a hand job/fingering
    2. Kiss a girl
    3. Sex with a celebrity
    4. Sex without kissing
    5. Loud, vocal, screaming sex
    6. Masturbate
    7. Finger yourself
    8. Use a vibrator
    9. Use a dildo
    10. Insert a butt plug/anal beads while masturbating
    11. Use Ben-Wa balls
    12. Masturbate to porn
    13. Masturbate in candlelight
    14. Take some ones viriginity
    15. Have a one night stand
    16. Get a fuck buddy – You’ll probably need to be single for this!
    17. Sex with someone old enough to be your dad/mom
    18. Sex with someone young enough to be your son/daughter – Remember to keep it legal!
    19. Sex with someone of a different race
    20. Sex with someone who speaks a different language to you
    21. Sex with someone smaller than you
    22. Sex with someone taller than you
    23. Resistance sex – You act like you don’t want it while your man gropes, touches and molests you (don’t forget to use a safe word)
    24. Sex with an escort
    25. Sex with an Olympic athlete
    26. Sex beside/under a large waterfall
    27. Sex with a complete stranger
    28. Listen to music on your stereo while having sex
    29. Go see a male strip show
    30. Have break up sex
    31. Finger yourself or masturbate in front of someone without them knowing what you are doing – Try to keep it legal!
    32. Go skinny dipping
    33. Try every sex position 
    34. Try anal sex
    35. Send/receive dirty text messages aka sex messages
    36. Make a homemade porno – Trust is crucial if you make your own porno. You obviously don’t want it getting online!
    37. Send/receive dirty pictures of each other – Again trust is crucial if you do this. You probably don’t want the whole world seeing naked pictures of you.
    38. Talk dirty to each other
    39. Have phone sex
    40. Have Skype sex / cyber sex
    41. Have snail mail sex – You can do this even if you live together, it makes for a very sexy surprise
    42. Sex in the shower
    43. Sex in the ocean
    44. Sex on a beach – Bring a rug! Sand getting where it’s not supposed to be can be very painful
    45. Sex in a car
    46. Give your man a blowjob while he is driving – Unfortunately it’s hard for him to return the favor and eat you out while you are driving
    47. Give your guy a hand job/finger your girl while they are driving
    48. Sex in an elevator
    49. Sex in the rain
    50. Sex in the desert
    51. Use ice/frozen berries in your mouth while giving oral sex
    52. Sex in a hotel room
    53. Sex in every room in your house
    54. Sex in a forest
    55. Sex in a department store changing room
    56. Sex in public
    57. Sex while wearing lingerie
    58. Sex while in costume
    59. Eat food off each other – Whipped cream and fruit is great for this (but a little sticky). Anything oily or fishy is not, it stinks.
    60. Give your partner oral sex using syrup, cream, honey, lube or some other liquid on their genitals
    61. Masturbate in front of each other
    62. Mutually masturbate each other. He fingers you while you give him a hand job
    63. Sex while blindfolded
    64. Sex with restraints – Arms tied behind back or tied to the bed or tied and bent over a chair/table. Don’t forget to swap roles!
    65. Spank and get spanked by hand
    66. Make out in front of others in a busy place
    67. Play strip poker
    68. Sex on a boat – The smaller the better. Sex on a cruise ship is easy as everyone has a cabin. Sex on a dinghy on the other hand…
    69. Use a vibrator during sex
    70. Use a dildo during sex
    71. Use a butt plug during sex
    72. Toe sucking – You might want to wash them first!
    73. Use anal beads during sex
    74. Put a cock ring on your man during sex –  Vibrating cock ring optional
    75. Use a chastity device for at least a day before sex – On yourself, your partner or both of you
    76. Use nipple clamps during sex – On you or on your partner or on both of you
    77. Experiment with breath play during sex – Remember to be super safe if you plan on doing this. Make sure to read Jay Wiseman’s article on it to guide you before trying it.
    78. Use ear plugs during sex – Use them to block your/his nose too for extra sensory deprivation
    79. Sex in the workplace
    80. Mile high club – Sex on a plane
    81. Blowjob/Cunnlingus
    82. Suck, kiss & lick your guy’s balls/Suck, kiss & lick your girl’s labia
    83. Give a guy deep throat/Penetrate your girl deeply with your tongue
    84. Hand job/Fingering
    85. Ass fingering
    86. Prostrate massage – Unfortunately there is no equivalent for girls
    87. Give each other a regular massage and then finish it off with a happy ending
    88. Have sex while others watch
    89. Devils threesome – 1 girl and 2 guys
    90. FFM threesome – 2 girls and 1 guy
    91. Have a more-some – Sex with more than 3 people
    92. Go to a swingers party
    93. Sex while drunk
    94. Sex on a mild altering substance – Try to keep it legal!
    95. Go on a date with a skirt, but wearing no panties/briefs
    96. Go on a date without a bra – Unfortunately there is no equivalent for guys
    97. Go on a date with neither a bra or panties – Again there is no equivalent for guys
    98. Go on a date wearing only 1 item of clothing besides your shoes – Would be interested if any guys have actually done this
    99. Foot job
    100. Hair pulling during sex
    101. Use a whip, paddle, riding crop, flogger or belt to spank/flog your partner – Don’t forget to be on the receiving end too!
    102. Get/Leave marks the next day after getting whipped
    103. Rim job – Also called anilingus
    104. Strap on – Also called pegging
    105. Wear heels/boots and nothing else in bed – Guys can wear cowboy boots
    106. Striptease
    107. Sex on the balcony of a very tall building
    108. Sex while watching porn
    109. Sex while using a fitness ball/yoga ball – The Speed Bump position is a great start
    110. Go to a strip club and get a lap dance – Optionally take your partner
    111. Read erotica together and then act out your favorite sex scenes – Remember, you’re not reading it for the prose, it’s to get ideas for your sex life!
    112. Pearl necklace – When a guy ejaculates onto your neck
    113. Get a facial
    114. Snow capped mountains – When a guy ejaculates onto your ass
    115. Swallow your man’s load
    116. Love biting
    117. Sex in an abandoned building
    118. Sex with the same person in at least 10 States or countries
    119. Sex with someone who speaks a foreign language
    120. Sex with someone else while your partner watches you
    121. Watch your partner having sex with someone else
    122. Have a quickie
    123. Let your partner suck your breasts like a nursing a baby
    124. Sex in silence
    125. Hand job/blowjob/fingering at the movies
    126. Sex in a nightclub/restaurant/bar/pub/public bathroom
    127. Sex at a music festival/concert
    128. Sex on the alter of a church
    129. Silent disco sex – Sex with both of you wearing headphones, listening to your favorite music
    130. Sex with an elected representative – local city council, state senate, even Congress counts!
    131. Rape roleplay
    132. Sex in your parents house
    133. Sex in your parents bed
    134. Use fruit/vegetables or other items to penetrate yourself or your partner with
    135. Use a fucking machine
    136. Go to a munch with your partner – A meetup for your local BDSM community
    137. Read and participate in http://reddit.com/r/sex – A great online community to discover, learn and help others improve their sex lives
    138. Read awesome sex blogs like Tiny Nibbles and listen to the Savage Love Podcast
    139. Try every position from the Kama Sutra
    140. Learn how to female ejaculate/squirt – Includes your guy learning how to make you ejaculate
    141. Tell each other your fantasies – Don’t forget to act them out too!
    142. Try some roleplaying fantasies with your man – This is perfect before transitioning to your own fantasies
    143. Wear a gag during sex
    144. Kissing in the rain
    145. Sex in front of a roaring fire
    146. Roleplay choking during sex. Just make sure that you do it safely. If you plan on trying it, then I suggest you read Jay Wiseman’s article on it to guide you.
    147. Play with his balls during sex/Rub her clit during sex (Doggystyle is the perfect position for this)
    148. Sensory deprivation during sex – ear plugs, ear plugs in nose, blindfold, mitts, restrained
    149. Wear a collar (not a shirt collar! More like a dog collar)
    150. Use a leash and collar
    151. Sex in complete darkness
    152. Be a maid/butler for a day for your partner, serving their every need
    153. Keep a private blog about your sexcapades with your partner (remember privacy and trust are crucial here)
    154. Sex in front of a mirror
    155. Use handcuffs during sex – On you, on your partner or used to tie you both together
    156. Have rough sex
    157. Sex without touching each other once with your hands
    158. Have a sex weekend – Stay in a really nice hotel, order room service and rarely leave your room for the whole weekend
    159. Sex with a foreigner
    160. Sex in a foreign country
    161. Surprise your partner with strawberries and champagne
    162. Sex on something vibrating – A washing machine or car hood both work well for this. You can even try the Washing Machine sex position
    163. Sex when other people are in the room – They don’t have to know about it though!
    164. Sex on a train
    165. Sex to the rhythm of a metronome – It’s a gadget that sways back and forth and makes a ‘tic’ sound each time. It’s often used by musicians
    166. Sex with at least 2 different people in one day
    167. Sex under the stars
    168. Sex under the sun
    169. Arrive to your man’s house in only heels/boots and a coat. Guys can use cowboy boots here
    170. Be a submissive sex slave to your partner for a night
    171. Climax at the same time
    172. Be a dominant mistress/master of your partner for a night
    173. Sex at a drive-in movie
    174. Have multiple orgasms during sex – Definitely a tough one for guys!
    175. Slowly rub ice over each other (think sensitive areas)
    176. Try queening with your partner
    177. Super-slow, sensual sex
    178. Make up sex
    179. Write erotica that features you and your partner – Don’t forget to get them to read it!
    180. Sex more than 7 times in one day
    181. Go to a sex club
    182. Answer the door naked to your partner
    183. Go to a sex show
    184. Go to a sex convention
    185. Try fisting, either receiving or giving
    186. Use a remote controlled sex toy in public on yourself and each other
    187. Have over 2 hours of foreplay before you have sex
    188. Wake your partner up with a blowjob/cunnlingus
    189. Wake your partner up to full on sex
    190. Sex with someone of the same sex
    191. Tit fucking/camel wank
    192. Use your nails on your partner’s back during sex
    193. Sex at a friend’s house party
    194. Slap your partner across the face during sex – Don’t forget to get slapped too
    195. Bite lips when kissing
    196. Bite your partner’s neck, arms, hands, ear lobes, genitals and the rest of their body – Just remember that some areas are more sensitive than others
    197. Orgasm Control – Control when your partner is allowed to orgasm and vice-versa
    198. Sex in a sex sling
    199. Sex in a tree house – Obviously make sure that there are no kids around!
    200. Sex with a member of the clergy
    201. Sex on furniture designed specifically for sex
    202. Squeeze/Massage/Fondle your partner’s genitals – Make sure to start off gently
    203. Be double penetrated by your man and a sex toy
    204. Be double penetrated by 2 men
    205. Airlock – Double penetrated and giving a blowjob at the same time
    206. Grope your partner in public
    207. Be groped in public
    208. Post naked pictures of you (& your partner) online – Just remember that once you post something online, it’s going to be there forever!
    209. Take pole dancing/stripping classes
    210. Sex against a wall
    211. Sex on the floor
    212. Sex on a couch – The Sofa Spoon position is perfect for this
    213. Give a birthday blowjob/cunnilingus
    214. Kiss your partner for hours without having sex
    215. Kiss, suck, squeeze, pinch and blow on your partner’s nipples
    216. Have an orgasm with the help of your partner without them touching your genitals – This can be very hard for guys to achieve unless they have their prostate massaged
    217. Kiss your partner on the backs of their elbows and knees
    218. Kiss your partner all over their back for more than 10 mins – Using just your lips, no hands or massaging
    219. Rub and massage the perineum – This is the patch of skin between the testicles/vagina and the anus
    220. Have sex in a room full of 100s of candles – Just make sure that nothing can accidentally catch fire
    221. Use a pair of sex dice
    222. Lunchtime sex when working
    223. Play some fun sex games – Here’s some ideas to get you started. Here’s even more!
    224. Pin your partner to the bed and don’t let them get away without getting what you want – Just make sure your partner is consenting!
    225. Wash each other in the shower – Optional Extra: Get into the shower wearing only a light, white t-shirt that will become see through when it’s wet.
    226. Wash your partner in a bath – You’ll find that most bathtubs are too small to both fit in there, so you’ll need to stand out of the bath
    227. Receive oral sex while you are on the phone
    228. Sex in a hot tub/jacuzzi
    229. Sex right after the gym
    230. Tell your partner what you like most about their body
    231. Minty mouthwash before oral sex
    232. Eat some food with aphrodisiac properties – Chocolate, oysters, champagne are a great start
    233. Undress each other
    234. Stare into each others eyes for 5 mins without breaking eye contact – Don’t forget to blink though!
    235. Ass pinching – Try squeezing his ass right as he cums. Don’t forget to do it randomly during the day too!
    236. Interlock your fingers with your partner’s during sex
    237. Use your mouth to put a condom on your man
    238. Burn incense during sex
    239. Spit roast
    240. Spend the whole day naked together
    241. Tell your partner, “Do whatever you want to me.” Just remember to use a safe word!
    242. Challenge your man to see who can go the longest without sex (the sexual tension will both drive you crazy with desire!)
    243. Sex in a tunnel – A cave counts too!
    244. Oh yeah, I almost forgot……Lose your virginity
Let everyone know how many you can cross of this Sex Bucket List (50, 90, 201, more?) in the comments section below. If you have anything you’d like to add to the Sex Bucket List, then please leave a comment.

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