4 Powerful Ways To Arouse A Man Tonight
Learning how to arouse a man is not rocket science. It’s a
lot easier than you’d think. Below are some of the most crucial things to do
and consider if you want to turn your man on.
1. Touch
Touch is probably the most powerful way to turn your man on.
The really great thing about touching your man to turn him on is that you can
be really subtle about it. You don’t have to grab his ass or anything over the
top. You can do much more subtle things. The key is to start off with very
light, incidental touching while talking to him and then slowly ramp up how
physical you get with him.
Starting Off
When you first starting touching your man, you need to do it
lightly. It could be gently grabbing his arm as you are making a point. Or it
could be by softly touching him on the hand when trying to get his attention.
The key is to do it gently and not linger, so that it’s not too obvious.
Building Up
Next you’ll want to ramp things up a bit. When you can see
that your man is comfortable with you touching him, try doing it more often.
Also try touching him for longer periods of time. Instead of solely touching
him on his arm or hand, start to touch him around his legs, chest and shoulders
as well.
To make the physical contact more enjoyable for both of you, make sure to make
eye contact with your man while doing it.
Taking It To The Next Level
When you can see that your man is comfortable with you
touching him for prolonged amounts of time, it’s time to ramp it up so that you
are really turning him on. Start touching your man around the more sensitive
areas of his body. Try focusing on his inner legs, neck, face and back. But
instead of just resting your hand on him, try stroking and rubbing these
areas…he will love it and it will really turn him on.
The key to touching your man to turn him on is to start off
quite slowly and relaxed and slowly increase how much touching you are doing,
all the while making sure that your man is enjoying it and is comfortable with
it.
2. What You Say
What you say to your man (& how you say it) is also
crucial if you want to turn him on. Here is a quick breakdown on what you should focus on if you
want to arouse your man with what you say:
Avoid The Boring Stuff
I thought this was obvious, but many still make the mistake of talking about boring, dull and mundane
topics. This will do the opposite of turning him on and arousing him. It will
put him to sleep. A great topic to focus on if you want to arouse him is….him.
Simply asking a guy about himself is the perfect reason to compliment and
subtly tell him what you think of him. A great way to prepare for this is to
think up of 3-7 interesting questions you could ask him about himself now
before you are hanging out with him.
Bring Out The Big Guns!
Once your man is comfortable talking about himself and you
have complimented him a few times, it’s time to bring out the big guns. Just remember, when talking dirty you need to start off slow to
see if he likes it.
3. How You Look
I don’t like sugar coating things and giving people false
hope. Looks are important to guys. But luckily you have a huge
amount of control over your looks. You can tone up your body in the gym, you
can wear clothes that show off the best parts of your body, you can change you
hairstyle and you can change your look with make up.
Now I am definitely not advocating that you become stick
thin and wear slutty clothes and make up to arouse your man. But what I am
saying is that even small changes in how you look can really turn your man on.
4. Take Control…Sometimes
A great way to arouse your man is to take control. Not
everytime, but sometimes. Taking control does not mean tying him to the bed and
whipping him, it just means leading the interaction. So this could be choosing
what to do one evening or where to hangout.
Or it could mean that when you are both alone, you
physically take things to the next level. This could be by doing something
physical like stroking his leg while watching TV or initiating the
kiss with him, or leading him to the bedroom. You may be a little nervous doing
this at first, but for a lot of guys it is massively arousing when a girl takes
control.
As you can see, there are a lot of different factors to
consider when trying to arouse a guy. Different things arouse different guys,
so don’t solely rely on just one thing to arouse your man, try all of them and
see what works best for you.
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