Step 3, Part 3: How To Make Her Orgasm
How To Make Her Orgasm
In this guide, you’re going to learn 25 different powerful techniques to make your girl orgasm intensely.
Now, let’s learn some techniques that will make your girl have the most powerful orgasms she’s ever experienced.
A Quick Anatomy Refresh
Before we dive in, you need to know and fully understand your girl’s sexual anatomy to make her climax. Below are two images with all the important parts labeled.
Her internal anatomy is where you’ll see her G-spot and A-spot…
Now, let’s learn some techniques that will make your girl have the most powerful orgasms she’s ever experienced.1. The Grind
Obviously, you have to understand that the clitoris is a pivotal part of her sexuality if you’re serious about learning how to make a woman come. With this in mind, here’s how to give her maximum clitoral stimulation during sex.
You’re going to be using a position called the Coital Alignment Technique, where you’ll be grinding right up against her clit during sex. So you won’t be thrusting in and out. Instead, you will remain as deep as possible inside her while maintaining pressure on her clit as you grind upwards and downwards on it.
The Kinsey report found that 37% of women who tried the Coital Alignment Technique experienced substantial increases in orgasmic ability.
Your position inside her will look very similar to the demonstration above, but at times your penis may be pointing directly downwards towards the bed.
Below is what the Coital Alignment Technique looks like:
2. The Vulcan
This next technique is only possible in girl on top sex positions like cowgirl or reverse missionary. You will be starting off with your girl on top of you like in the illustration above. You will then lower your hand down the centerline of your stomach with your palm on your belly. When you reach your penis, spread your fingers apart so that he makes the Vulcan “V” sign like in the illustration above.
For some women, your knuckles will be too hard for her, so you may need to adjust the position of your hand so that she’s grinding on another part of your hand and not directly on the knuckles.
This is a super easy way to give her an orgasm from clitoral stimulation during intercourse.
Keep in mind that sometimes you can actually apply too much pressure, so make sure to get feedback from her on what’s working.
Alternatively, you can hold a vibrator against her clitoris instead of using the Vulcan V to make her come faster.
3. Hitting Her G Spot During Sex
4. Sex Positions To Stimulate Her G Spot
Some positions work better than others to stimulate your girls G Spot.You can adjust these positions for better G-spot stimulation and to increase her likelihood of having orgasms by placing a pillow beneath your or her hips.
5. Her A-Spot
Stimulating her A-Spot requires using pretty much the same sex positions as for stimulating her G Spot, except you need to thrust deeper.
Using a vibrator on her clit is similar to rubbing her clit with the tip of your finger.
6. Faucets & Shower Heads
7. Edging
Edging your girl is a fantastic way to make her orgasms more intense, but it requires both restraint from you and a bit of skill in understanding when she is close to orgasm.8. Vibrator On Her Clit
Using a vibrator on her clit is similar to rubbing her clit with the tip of your finger.- You can push the tip of it into a particular side of her clit.
- You can rub it over and back on her clit.
- You can rub it in a circle around her clit slowly/rapidly.
9. Maximum Coverage
Stimulating every part of the outside of her entire vagina is naturally going to make it easier for her to come. So if she has trouble getting off, then this technique should help to push her over the edge.10. Use Her Vibrator For Better Sex
Vibrators aren’t just for foreplay. You should try using her vibrator during sex too, especially if your girl struggles to climax. You can be in control of the vibrator during sex, but it’s usually a better idea to give it to her, as she will know exactly what kind of stimulation she needs.11. Dildos, Dildos, Dildos
Dildos are exactly the same as your penis, right? And you can do the same things with them that your penis does, right? Actually, no. On both counts.
There is both more and less you can do with a dildo, and I’ll explain why below. We’ll start with some very tame things you should try out with your girl and a dildo; then we’ll get to the fun stuffThe Importance of Lube
Before we get any further, I’m going to talk about lube. Many people skip lube when using sex toys or even during having sex. You might think that you shouldn’t need to use it. If your girl is turned on by you, she’ll get wet. She might even be offended at the idea, but here’s the truth:Ouch!
Focusing it on her G Spot is the first thing that comes to most people when using a dildo on their partner. Doing this is a simple case of angling the dildo so that pressure is applied to her G Spot with each stroke as you are pushing it in and out. However, you might want a dildo with a curve or contoured head specifically for “G-spotting.”
12. G Spot Focus
Focusing it on her G Spot is the first thing that comes to most people when using a dildo on their partner. Doing this is a simple case of angling the dildo so that pressure is applied to her G Spot with each stroke as you are pushing it in and out. However, you might want a dildo with a curve or contoured head specifically for “G-spotting.”13. Slide In Towards Her A Spot
There is another way to pleasure her G Spot with the dildo that’s not just a simple case of “in & out.”14. Posterior Wall Fun
15. ‘Juicing’
There is an entire category of dildos known as ‘juicers.’ They come with cranks, and you turn them around after they’re inserted. Most dildos will work with this motion as long as there isn’t a sharp angle that might be uncomfortable.
Before you do insert the dildo and start twisting it, it’s important that you are using a lot of lube to prevent excessive friction in the same spot. Equally important is making sure to start slowly if it’s her first time as well as getting feedback from her on what she enjoys (or doesn’t enjoy!).
Juicing is one of those techniques that some women love, but others don’t like it so much.16. Filling Feeling
Thrusting, dragging and twisting the dildo inside her is all well and good, but it’s not always necessary. If you like, you can thrust it deeply and then just hold it in place. Once deep inside, you can pay attention to her clit or elsewhere on her body.
17. Anal Penetration With A Dildo
Of course, you can penetrate your partner anally with a dildo too. It can be the perfect way to warm her up for anal sex beforehand.18. Butt Plugs & Dildos
If your partner wants to try double penetration with you, but you are not so keen on bringing another guy into the bedroom, then using a dildo or butt plug is the perfect compromise. There is a bunch of different combinations you can use for double penetration:- You penetrating her vaginally while using a dildo on her anally.
- Vice versa. Having anal sex while you penetrate her vaginally with a dildo.
- Regular vaginal sex while she is wearing a butt plug.
- Two dildos. One in her ass (remember, it should be flared!), one in her vagina.
- Two men. One in her ass, one in her vagina.
19. Using Other Sex Toys
There are a lot more sex toys that you can be using besides dildos, butt plugs, and vibrators. There is a nearly endless supply of sex toys you can buy, but here are a few ideas to get your creative juices flowing on everything that is possible when it comes to sex toys.Anal Beads
Anal beads are very similar to butt plugs but are more like a series of butt plugs that are strung together. You can insert them into your partner and then pull them out. This alone is enough for some women, but others prefer to have them pulled out as they reach orgasm.Cock Rings
Cock rings come in many flavors. They are circular devices that fit around the base of your penis to keep it erect. However, some come with vibrating attachments for your partner’s pleasure. We advise that you use a cock ring that stretches to prevent it from getting stuck on your penis and damaging it.Restraints
Restraints can be a great way to dominate your partner and leave them powerless. Of course, the roles can be reversed too.Paddles, Whips & Floggers
If you have a slight sadistic (or masochistic streak), then a little physical punishment will get the hairs on the back of your neck standing up. An open palm on your partner’s butt is fine, but there are plenty of implements you can use instead.Sex Furniture
If you are not getting the angles you want during sex, then you should think about using a sex wedge or piece of furniture that helps you hit the spot. Alternatively, a sex swing may be what you are looking for.Other Sex Toys
There is a huge amount of choice when it comes to sex toys, whether you want to experiment with strap-ons, ben wa balls, nipple clamps, prostate massagers, different types of lube, penis pumps, penis extenders, remote control vibrators, pocket pussies or even sex dolls. So if your partner is keen, you are in for a lot of fun!20. Dominating her (& Submitting)
Note: First up, you should both talk to each other and agree on a safe word before getting involved in dom/sub play.- Be the initiator.
- Tell her what to do in bed.
- Use restraints.
- You’ll get more ideas on in the guide on
21. Rough or Loving or Somewhere in Between?
Being rough or loving during sex is similar to being dominant or submissive in that it occurs on a spectrum.- Pinning her arms above her head.
- Pulling her hair – You need to hold her hair lightly by her scalp, holding the ends of her hair doesn’t feel particularly great for her.
- Lightly digging your nails into her shoulders, back, ass, hips and legs and gently scratching her.
- Getting more vocal with your dirty talk.
- Kissing her slowly and passionately.
- Whispering in her ear, telling her how much she means to you.
- Slowing right down and maintaining eye contact with her during sex.
- Using a more intimate position like
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